There
was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things
too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear
tree that was a great distance away.
The
first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer,
and the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he
called them together to describe what they had seen.
The
first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said,
“no – it was covered with green buds and full of promise”. The third son
disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked
so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son
disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full
of life and fulfillment.
The
man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each
seen but only one season in the tree’s life.
He
told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and
that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from
that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.
If
you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the
beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.
Moral: Don’t let the pain of one
season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don’t judge life by one difficult
season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to
come sometime or later.
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