Friday, July 13, 2012

And It's A NO!

Consistent academic record. 3.80 CGPA in BBA. 3 years of working experience in banking sector. Full scholarship offered on tuition fees by the university. The University where 46th American Vice-President Dick Cheney studied. And still I got my VISA application rejected. I don't say I am an 'exceptional' student, but not bad either. This is America! Expect the unexpected.

My sister went to the US some four years back. She got Diversity Visa that the US government issues every year. But is that my fault to have my sister in the US. Or do they have a rule that disqualifies an applicant whatever academic records they have on the basis that if his/her sibling is in the US then s/he must be planning to immigrate there and not study? I don’t know whether they have it in their official record or not that my sister is a double Master’s degree holder [Executive-MBA and Master’s in Rural Development] and presently working at a bank in the US itself. With that qualification should I hide that my sister is in US like most of the US aspirants do? NO! I am proud of having a sister like her, denying me the Visa may sound like my loss entirely but I believe if that consular who rejected my application had been through my academic documents he must have certain guilt rejecting the same. The official line was “I have a feeling that you are trying to immigrate to the US”. 

Now I realize I have been in most cases ‘second time lucky’. I hope to reapply next week itself, with all the same documents. Let’s see what happens this time.

Friday the 13th wasn’t auspicious to me as well.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Crazy Stupid Updates : Part VIII

I'm not as think as you confused I am.

Life is too short to be distracted by the opinions of others.

Alarm clock: We only hate them when they don't work and when they do!

When I was little, I used to pretend I was asleep to get carried inside.

'I look at the stars and I see you, I look at the moon and I see you, I look at the trees and I see you, Please step aside, you are blocking my view. '


Live life like a pair of walking legs... the foot forward has no pride and the foot behind has no shame... because both know their situation will change........

A hug from the right person can keep you glowing all day.

Today is the oldest you’ve ever been and the youngest you’ll ever be again…

I never thought I would miss someone I see every day

People are like music, some speak the truth and others are just noise.


Technically I'm single, but my heart is taken by someone I can't call my own.

I hate not knowing what to text back, but not wanting the conversation to end.

You know what's the best thing in my life? The first word in this sentence.

What's done is done, What's gone is gone, move on

Falling in love with you is the second best thing in the world. Finding you was the first


I wanted to tell you all of my secrets, but you became one instead...

The average person tells 4 lies per day or 1,460 a year; a total of 87,600 by the age 60. And the most common lie is: I'm Fine.

It's not the goodbye that hurts but the flashbacks that follow.

Born to fight, trained to kill, ready to die, but never will.

It's crazy how you can go months or years without talking to someone but they still cross your mind everyday.


The eyes believe themselves; the ears believe other people.

Man invented language to satisfy his deep need to complain .

If you're going to get in trouble for hitting someone, might as will hit them hard.

If I had one wish, it would be to not have a reason to make one.

Oh, I offended you with my opinion? You should hear the ones I kept to myself.


We talked about old times and it made me smile because you didn't forget.

The reason why a seesaw was made for two people is that when you go down, there would always be someone there to lift you up again.

Having a sister is like having a best friend you can't get rid of.  You know whatever you do, they'll still be there.  ~Amy Li

A sister is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost.  ~Marion C. Garretty

When mom and dad don't understand, a sister always will.  ~Author Unknown


To the outside world we all grow old.  But not to brothers and sisters.  We know each other as we always were.  We know each other's hearts.  We share private family jokes.  We remember family feuds and secrets, family griefs and joys.  We live outside the touch of time.  ~Clara Ortega

An older sister is a friend and defender - a listener, conspirator, a counsellor and a sharer of delights.  And sorrows too.  ~Pam Brown

There is no better friend than a sister.  And there is no better sister than you.  ~Author Unknown

A sister smiles when one tells one's stories - for she knows where the decoration has been added.  ~Chris Montaigne

Sisters share the scent and smells - the feel of a common childhood.  ~Pam Brown


What is the perfect example of globalization? Answer: Princess Diana's death. Question: How come? Answer: An English Princess with an Egyptian boyfriend, crashes in a French tunnel, driving a German car with a Dutch engine, driven by a Belgian who was high on Scottish whiskey, followed closely by Italian Paparazzi, on Japanese motorcycles, treated by an American doctor, using Brazilian medicines! And you are probably reading this on one of the IBM clones that use Taiwanese-made chips, and Korean made monitors, assembled by Bangladeshi workers in a Singapore plant, transported by lorries driven by Pakistanis, Here you have it:…Globalization!

You're the best feeling I ever had and I wish to have that feeling forever.

3 Apples changed the World.. 1st one seduced Eve, 2nd fell on Newton & the 3rd was offered to the World half bitten by Steve Jobs. Do we all know that ?

It's hard to wait around for something that you know might never happen; but it's harder to give up when you know it's everything you want..

When you're a fast texter, two minutes is too long a time to wait for a reply.


Dear Google,Please stop behaving like WOMEN..will u please allow me to complete the whole sentence before u start guessing & suggesting!!!

There are some people that make your laugh a little louder, your smile a little brighter, your pain a little easier, and your life just a little bit better. Thats what I call best friends.

Yes I'm single and you're gonna have to be amazing to change that.

Ask God, he's my witness.

I'm jealous of the people who get to see you every day.


"Thinking of you is easy - I do it every day. Missing you is the heartache, that never goes away."

COMMITMENT doesn't mean sticking to a person when you don't have any option, But it means keeping a relation with someone even though you have lots of options.

Sometimes you'll find that the saddest songs bring you the most comfort. And the memories that make you cry are the happiest ones you'll ever have.

Never give your secret to anyone because if you can't keep it to yourself don't expect others to.

Certain memories need to remain just that. Memories.

Crazy Stupid Updates : Part VII

One smile can't change the world, but your smile changes mine.

Some people make the world special by just being in it.

Having no reason to stay is a good reason to leave.

There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go.

"JEALOUSY is always the best compliment."


Forever is a long time, and time has it's way of changing things.

It was always you.

"I don't know" has been my answer for everything lately...I don't know what's wrong.

1 in every 3 people is ugly. So, look to your right, then look to your left. If they look OK, guess what?!?!?!?!

I hate those moments when I casually glance at you and see you staring back for a second, and I turn away and wonder, "What could she be thinking?"


“We look at each other wondering what the other is thinking but we never say a thing.”

For all the times I never said the things I should have, I thank you for all the times you understood.

Sometimes, your brain gets in the way of what your heart wants to say.

Not texting back is a surprisingly simple way to end an argument.

Never give up on the things that make you smile.


"When you sit alone, you sit more with your past"

Everytime I feel like I'm letting go, you say the right things to pull me back in.

A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears.

When someone loves you... the way they say your name is different.

Its so hard to forget someone who gave you too much memories to remember...


Forget all the reasons it wont work and believe the one reason why it will.
It's funny how no matter how different our stories or situations are, we all can relate to quotes and each other.

Dear heart, I've fallen for a guy. Good luck! ?

You are as Useless as the Warning in Cigarette Packets

Change only happens when the pain of holding on is greater than the fear of letting go.


The feeling when the person you like smiles at you.

My theory is if I stop talking to you, maybe you would start to miss me.

The strong will never understand how much strength it takes to survive being weak.

"No day is truly over if it makes a memory."

Songs are what people turn to when no one else understands.


Hey cupid? We need to talk about your aim.

Today is not just a day to break old habits, it’s a day to start new habits.

Love those random memories that make you smile, no matter what's going on in your life.

It's hard to explain how I smile stupidly when you say hi and the way that 5 seconds moment pathetically, makes my entire day.

Old enough to know better, young enough to try it again.


God Created the Universe,everything else is Made In China

The only thing better than being with you, is telling everyone about you.

You were pretty until your photoshop 30 day trial expired.

That awkward moment when you don’t know how to continue the conversation.

On a scale form 1 to 10 you are a 9 and I am the 1 you need.


9 years old today have Twitter, phones, Facebooks, i-pods.. when I was their age, I had a coloring book ,crayons, chalk and imagination.

We all have a story to tell, whether we whisper or yell.

I remember the first time I really looked you in the eyes I was thinking to myself, there will never be anyone else.

Love is when you fall asleep thinking about that person and you wake up and think about them until you fall asleep again.

That smile has lost it's effect on me.


Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me.

The good thing about love: you get to choose whoever you want. The bad part: so can she.

In hard times we learn 3 things… Friends are closer than we knew they could be, Family loves us more than we thought & we can be stronger than we EVER imagined.

Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.

I don't care if it's not going anywhere, I really like wasting my time on you.

Crazy Stupid Updates : Part VI

You are weird, I like you. :)

When Facebook starts showing how many times you have visited someone's profile, we're all screwed.!!

When. I. Read. Stuff. Like. This. The. Voice. In. My. Head. Takes. Pauses.

Ignoring your feelings won't make them go away

And the best way to leave is without saying a word.


Don't you love when someone can make you smile over a text message? :)

That awkward moment when you’re talking in class, then your friend stops talking and you see that your teacher is looking at you.

Help a man when he is in trouble and he will remember you when he is in trouble again.

Dear past, Stop tapping me on the shoulders, I don't want to look back

Understanding people is not a waste of time.


Ideas pull the trigger, but instinct loads the gun.

And the best way to leave is without saying a word.

When everyone around you is quiet, it's your turn to be loud.

We'll all have stories we never tell.

I'm not shy, I'm just holding back my awesomeness.


No matter how down life gets you, remember that once you hit rock-bottom, the only way to go is up.

Sometimes you're just better on your own.

People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.

It doesn't matter how long you've known each other, or how many fights you've gotten into. What matters is who said "I'll be here for you" and proved it.

God understands our prayers even when we can't find the words to say them.


"Wants to say thank you to all the people who walked into my life and made it outstanding and all the people who walked out of my life and made it fantastic "

if you expect breakfast in bed. go sleep in the kitchen

No matter how much things have changed, it will always be nice to hear from you. :)

Best friends understand when you say forget it. Wait forever when you say just a minute. Stay when you say leave me alone.

The two hardest things in life are hello for the first time and goodbye for the last.


If I died and went straight to hell it would take me at least a week to realize I wasn't at work anymore.

A memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.

My phone loves it when you text. It lights up, bursts into beeps and has your name written all over it. I think you should text more often ;)

The things we lose have a way of coming back to us in the end, just not always in the way we expect.

Today, the whole world came crashing down on me...So I got some tape and stuck the map back onto the wall.


Have you ever had a fly or small bug land on your computer screen and your first reaction is to try and scare it with the cursor?

My mind tells me to give up, but my heart won't let me.

Next mood swing in 6 minutes - maintain a safe distance.

The times i have the most to say are the times i can't talk.

Even the most boring words sound exciting when spoken by the right person.


Dear Brain, will you please stop thinking so much & let me SLEEP?

What do you say when words are not enough?

I'm tired. Can you just call yourself an idiot?

Making sense just isn't your thing, is it?

Physics would have been much easier if 'Tree' instead of 'Apple' had fallen on Newton's head.


Mathematics may not teach us how to add love or how to subtract hate. But it gives us every reason to hope that every problem has a solution.

A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back.

You've only got three choices in life - give up, give in, or give it all you've got.

She says she doesn't care, but her eyes tell a different story.

I may look calm, but in my head, I've killed you three times.


When I'm bored, nobody texts me, but when I'm busy, my phone blows up

I still get butterflies even though I've seen you a hundred times.

They invented hugs to let people know you love them without saying anything.

Forget butterflies, I feel like I have elephants running around in my stomach whenever I see you.

...and I hope your day is just as beautiful as you are.

Crazy Stupid Updates : Part V

You can always retake a class, but you can never relive a party.

I wish I knew what she thinks when she looks at me & smiles.

The mind doubts, but the heart never does.

When my computer freezes, I click everywhere thinking it will make a difference.

Take my hand & we'll make it...I swear.


Why do you press harder on the buttons of a remote control when you know the batteries are dead?

I should rename my mood and call it Tarzan. Swings too much!

When I finally felt like I was over you; You looked at me & smiled. & I thought... " here we go again."

Your status needs a band-aid ( : : [ ] : : ) because its hurting everyone.

A dead end is just a good place to turn around.


Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult.

Missing you isn't the problem.. wondering if you miss me is.

“It’s better to be alone than have somebody who is half there or doesn’t want to be there.”

I never stopped feeling things for you; I just stopped letting it show.

Why am I so brave until it comes to you?


I love how we can look at each other & start laughing for no reason.

The reason why I don't talk to you anymore is because I keep telling myself, if you wanted to speak to me, you would.

I hope your day was just as beautiful as you are.

"Perhaps our eyes need to be washed with our tears once in awhile, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again"

The sky isn't always blue, the sun doesn't always shine. It's all right to fall apart sometimes.


Warning: Dates in Calendar are closer than they appear.

Talk to yourself atleast once in a day, otherwise you may miss a meeting with an EXCELLENT person in this World.

Worrying is stupid. It's like walking around with an umbrella waiting for it to rain.

I know Karate, Kung Fu, and 47 other dangerous words...

You can't stay mad at somebody who makes you laugh.


"If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough."

You have no idea what your smile does to me.

"Sometimes a heart cannot afford to be 'just friends'."

How many times is it appropriate to say "What?" before you just nod and smile because you still didn't hear what they said?

I don't have to attend every argument I'm invited to.


When I'm sad I just sing, and then I realize my voice is worse than my problems.

Mirrors dont talk and lucky for u they dont laugh either!

Dear eyelashes, wishbones, dandelions, pennies, shooting stars, 11:11, and birthday candles, DO YOUR JOB.

Life is too short ... Smile while you still have teeth !

Before I met you I never knew what it was like to look at someone and smile for no reason.


I love how you can make me smile without even doing anything.

There never has been, and never will be a good enough reason to be anyone other than yourself.

I always wonder what crosses your mind when your eyes meet mine.

Dear Heart, Please stop getting so involved in your relationships with other people...Your job is to pump blood, that's it.

I didn't lose my mind. I sold it on eBay.


Time makes us forget memories, but a few memories make us forget time; they make life worthwhile.

If your relationship status says, “It’s complicated” then you should stop kidding yourself and change it to “Single”.

When I was little, I used to watch the raindrops roll down the window and see which one "won".

Sometimes I wonder if love is worth fighting for. Then I think of you, and I am ready for war

You aren't the only reason I smile, but you're difinitely my favorite.


Having a sharp memory is great, but sometimes the ability to forget is a lot better.

“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go with others.” – Melinda Gates

Follow your heart... but bring your brain with you.

Carry yourself like a queen and you'll attract a king.

"Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, and the things you never want to lose."